each moment comes down
to how one cares about us
coming and going
What others think takes practical precedence in most heads, I imagine. Why should mine or yours be any different? Projection is not just illumination.
The lady will dance to the oldies in a style of her personal lack of certain experience. It's gonna look jerky to some. But every move and counter-move can well be expected and on some level tolerated if not understood at the discretion of risk/reward calculations on autopilot. Only another with a strong enough image of a distinctly different reality is gonna show her up.
